How Soon Should a Lady Say Yes to Man's Marriage Proposal?

 

When should a lady say yes to a marriage proposal?

Sometimes love happens so quickly that your partner proposes a lot sooner than you may be ready for. This is perhaps the most delicate situation encountered in any marriage proposal because your partner could be crushed by anything other than a firm "Yes!" 

Still, no one should ever rush into marriage before both partners are completely sure they are doing the right thing. If you're not ready to say yes or no, you have to find the right way to say that you need more time.

A marriage proposal is a pivitol moment for any relationship since the futures of two people are set in motion by the answer to the question. Sometimes a woman can see that proposal coming and already knows how she wants to respond. In other cases, her partner might just catch her off guard with a surprise proposal. No matter how that proposal comes, it's important to think about your reply before you give an answer that is going to change your entire life.

Risks Associated with saying no to a Marriage Proposal:

You will feel hurt when you receive a marriage proposal rejection. Rejection is painful and causes an immediate withdrawal from the person passing out the letdown. It’s not okay to turn away from your partner because they’re not ready to walk down the aisle, especially if you want to maintain the relationship.

Be clear on why you do not want to get married. It is perfectly OK to have a "gut feeling" that the marriage would not be successful and simply go on that. However, it is even better to be clear to yourself what your concerns are. If you're simply nervous about making such a big commitment (which is not uncommon) try reading the advice in How to overcome the fear of marriage. If you're concerned that you and your mate are not compatible in some way, it's important to address your worries as soon as possible, long before your partner gets down on their knee. Think about these aspects of the relationship in advance so you're prepared to have a serious conversation.

Other considerations when deciding whether or not to say yes to a marriage proposal:

The fairytale suggests that "yes, oh, yes!" is the only answer ever given to a proposal of marriage. But sometimes, marriage is not a good choice. There are many good reasons for rejecting a proposal: uncertainty that this is a solid marriage partner, not really knowing one another well enough, wondering if the person asking really means it, or that it is the timing is right. When it comes to a life decision, never say "yes" when you should say "no"; an honest response allows you both to make the best decision about the future.

You need to think about your relationship, and in particular why you and your partner are not on the same page regarding marriage. It might be that turning down the proposal means that you will break up, so you should be prepared for this possibility. However, it may be that your partner wants to stay with you, but does not want to marry you (yet). In this case, it’s time to dig into the details.

Romantic love between two people is a wonderful experience. However, not all love stories have happy endings. In the film Titanic, Rosemary, the younger sister of protagonist Rose, played by 10-year-old Kate Winslet, chooses not to share the happiness of her siblings on the ship she designed. She later blames herself for her misgivings toward her fiancé, who proposed aboard the ship she would never live to see sink.

When Rosemary boards the ship to journey with her fiancé and his family, she may find it strange to accept her boyfriend's marriage proposal so far from home. However, she should do so because she loves him and believes he will be a great husband. She should also do so because she does not want to hurt him by turning him down- even though she cannot stomach the idea of marrying him. As the fictional character Matthew.

McConnaughey says in Titanic, 'A man may propose at any time- as long as he is sincere about his love for her.' In other words, a woman should always say yes to her fiancé's proposal if she truly loves him.

As the famous line goes in Titanic, 'All is lost, but / The spirit still is free.' While Rosemary and Jack Dawson share their wedding day free from the sinking ship that claimed her sister's life, their love story remains bittersweet. However, their tale does have a happy ending: Rosemary and Jack chose to look on the positive aspects of their relationship when considering whether or not to consummate their marriage. They were wise enough to acknowledge that they had suffered years of emotional abuse by their respective previous lovers and wives. They were strong enough to recognize that they would never be perfect together- but they remained devoted to one another until death did them part.

When two people decide to marry, it usually signifies that their bond is deep and true; thus, it is important for friends and family members to support the newlyweds as they learn to cope with their new relationship. Friends in particular should express support by making time for both new spouses- as well as by offering helpful advice on issues such as childcare or conflict resolution. Ultimately, supporting someone in your life - whether it be a friend or family member - can go a long way toward making that person happy and fulfilled.

Every couple faces unique challenges along their marital journey. However, couples who have learned how to persevere have a much happier time of it once they become parents. 

A man or woman who truly loves his partner should never hesitate to declare his intentions toward her with words or deeds. Not doing so undermines any potential love that he may have for his partner and stunts their growth as people in general.

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“Na mumu dey love; I’m getting married for money” – Lady declares as she shares pre-wedding photos

 

A young lady has revealed online that she is marrying for money rather than love.

Habiba Gado, a young woman identified on Facebook, raised eyebrows after she shared pre-wedding photos and stated her reason for marriage.

According to Habiba, she is marrying for money rather than love, as most people do.

Sharing pre-wedding photos that are believed to be hers, she stated that only a fool loves.

“I’m getting married for money, Nothing concern me with una nonsense.”She wrote.

The hashtag "Na mumu dey love" was then added by Habiba.

However, it's unclear whether she's just stretching the truth or if she meant what she wrote.

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How to Make a Man Admire You, Chase You, Fall in Love with You and Marry You

 

In any society, love is a feeling that makes people feel warm and fuzzy inside. Most people seek to gain admiration and love from others. Generally speaking, finding love is difficult; however, understanding how to win a man's heart makes it easier. Each day, new books on love are released, and many previous ideas find new life. Understanding how to win a man's heart makes you worthy of love.

1. Start off by making a man feel valuable.

Please be humble! Learn how to accommodate all classes of people. Learn how to serve others. Learn to use "sir" when talking to men. Some men may tell you it doesn't matter but secretly, they love it. Men love it when women addresses them with respect because a man naturally spells love as respect. Learn to be respectful and submissive to authorities as a single lady.

A woman should refrain from arrogance and indecorous behavior. First, you must understand the difference between love and hate. Hate - or anger - is constant while love is intermittent. You must be willing to tolerate the presence of love when it comes so that you can experience the feeling of hate when you want. You must also be willing to forgive when he shows hatred towards you. In addition, you must be willing to take responsibility for your actions when he punishes you. The words you speak have the power to make him happy or miserable for life. Therefore, it's essential that you choose your words wisely.

2. Be Intelligent: Men love intelligent women. As a woman, know when, how and when to talk. Don't be a dummy upstairs. Know what is going on around you. You shouldn't be a naive, empty-brained beauty queen. Your face may get you into marriage, but your brain will determine how long you will last. A man likes a woman who can give intelligent answers to questions and contribute meaningfully to discussions. For example, if he asks you, "Why is Nigeria in the mess we are?" And you scratched your head, looked at the ceiling, bite your finger and say, "I don't know". My sister, your brain needs serious rewiring because your village people are seriously following you.

Next, she should demonstrate her worth through her actions and words. Actions speak louder than words; however, you must still say something meaningful to effectively communicate your value to others. When dealing with an obsessive lover, saying nothing at all will work wonders in getting him off your back. Avoid using childish words when speaking to adults; this will show that you're an adult yourself and can handle yourself well in public without losing your dignity. 

3. Show your man that you care about him.

Respect him. There is no human being who doesn’t love to be respected. Picture the kind of respect you think you deserve and imagine he feels the same way or imagine those were his exact needs to. Make him feel, not only through your words, but actions too, that you value his presence in your life.

4. Be his confidence booster. Positive words and encouragements from a man’s partner can go a long way. Contrary to their external appearance, men are like babies, who crave for compliments and affection. Boost his confidence, by validating his image about himself. This will enable him to open up with you. Tell him directly or subtly whatever you like about him. Telling him that you love him once a day will make him feel good.

If you want to show your guy that you think he's special, you could just tell him you love him. He'll always want to hear that. And, of course, you can surprise him with the latest iPhone or that golf club he's been begging for. But probably the best way to make a man feel loved is to offer some simple, everyday acts of kindness that show him you understand him. These little gifts will give something back to you: a marriage infused with more trust and friendship and a deeper sense of togetherness.

5. Show your man that you are interested in him, then allow him to make advances towards you.

Many men enjoy the thrill of the 'chase.' Catch his eye and his attention, and then let him work a little to win you over. Let him notice how much he misses you when you are not around. As soon as he suspects he's falling in love with you, he will definitely do something to get you.

6. Wow him with your confidence. Confidence is wildly attractive and people tend to be drawn to confident people. Let your man see that you love who you are and that you're proud of everything you have to offer to the world. For example, be assertive and approach him first.  

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Be clear and share your feelings with utmost honesty. If it’s been a long time, then you can be upfront about your feelings. If you tell a man that you’re looking for a serious relationship, he may understand and reciprocate the same way. While being honest, also remember to be kind and non-judgemental.

Do not exaggerate your charm in front of others; imitation is the sincerest form of flattery. Moreover, never demean him or make fun of him in front of others; this will only provoke his jealousy and cause him serious emotional harm later on in life.

Lastly, do not make it impossible for him to love you by displaying unwholesome traits such as greedinessness or wrathfulnessness. It's best not to provoke these tendencies in the first place by giving humorous nicknames to your significant other. 

In addition, do not constantly accuse him of being unfaithful without solid evidence. Accusing someone of something she has not done wrong makes it impossible for her to defend herself against the charge. Do not humiliate him publicly unless absolutely necessary- whether verbally or physically- as this will only provoke his jealousy towards other men and make him more likely to mistreat you in private either verbally or physically.

Love is a beautiful feeling that most people wish to experience at some point in their lives. Understanding how to win a man's heart makes it easier to gain admiration and love from others makes you more likely to succeed in finding love among adults in the real world as well; however, if you've already found someone who loves you dearly, understand that the best way to show your appreciation toward him is through sincere actions rather than flattery or deprecating humor about his appearance or character traits.

 If you do these things sincerely and with genuine humility, he will be more likely to trust you more and more with his heart and soul as time goes on into whatever future relationship he may choose with regard to whom he chooses to trust fully as he chooses among various options which each deprecate those who seek public humiliation in private, those who each choose inhumanity among should refrain from arrogance and indecorous behavior .

A woman should demonstrate her worth through actions and words .

She should avoid making it impossible for him to love her by displaying unwholesome traits such as greedinessness or wrathfulnessness .

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How to Make Your Wife Respect and Summit to You for Life

 

Making a woman do what you want, honour you, adore you, celebrate you, respect you, and submit to you for the rest of her life is not difficult.

Except you married the devil's own daughter, whose conscience is practically dead and buried, no woman on earth is difficult!

Total respect, honor, and submission to you come easily and cheaply as long as she is a woman created in the image of God if you do the following:

1. Train your wife to respect and summit to you for life.

Help your wife trust you even in the company of other women. As a married gentleman, set a limitation on how you should treat other ladies. One thing you can do is to bring your wife with you whenever you have to meet women friends. Also, never spend time with another woman alone.

2. Manage your wife's emotions.

Do not try to be overly controlling of your wife. This is one of the best ways to respect your wife’s feelings. Avoid texting or calling her all the time when she is out. Avoid going through her phone to check her messages. Avoid snooping around when she is out with friends.

You need to be mindful of the way you communicate to your partner so you don’t hurt her feelings in the process. If there is a source of conflict, refrain from using an accusatory tone. Disagreements are a part of married life. But it’s how you handle and communicate during such instances that make a difference.

3. Launch an effective communication campaign to change your wife's mind about respecting and summit to you for life.

How often do you tell your wife that you love her? She might think that there are other women in your life, which is probably why you are not treating her well. You need to always tell her that she is the only one who stole your heart. This is one of the incredible ways to talk to your wife with respect.

4. Take your financial responsibility serious.

Wives naturally submit to responsible husbands who do not wait for the landlord to scream at the top of his lungs before paying rent, nor does he wait for the children to be expelled from school before paying their school fees.

You must take your financial life seriously if you want your wife to truly respect you from the bottom of her heart. Pay your bills on time and save enough money for food, clothing, and shelter.

Your wife can help you, but it is not her responsibility to shoulder all of the burden.

Men who pay their rent, feed, clothe, and care for their wives and children receive genuine respect from their wives. Women naturally admire caring men.

5. Don't depend on her income 100%.

Your wife can help you pay your bills. She can share financial responsibility 50% of the time, but never rely on a woman to carry all financial responsibility in the home. She is not going to respect you.

However, to keep your wife secure with your love for her, never take her for granted. The longer you have been together, the more that you should exert effort in keeping your passion for each other alive. Date with her regularly, shower her with hugs and kisses and tell her “I love you” always.

True submission in marriage does not come through coercion, threat, manipulation, abuse, screaming, shouting, or abusing. It comes naturally when you love your wife as Christ loves the church.

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